Children and the legal system

While it’s not possible for all separating families to resolve their issues outside of court, many separating families are able to do this. Resolving issues outside of the court can save time, money and a lot of stress for you and your children. The family law system encourages parents to develop a parenting plan for their children without going to court. You can make a parenting plan together or with the assistance of a mediator or family relationship service provider at a Family Relationship Centre.

You can formalise your parenting plan by filling in Consent Orders and registering the orders through the Family Court or the Federal Magistrates Court. Consent Orders are legally binding agreements about the care of children (they are also known as parenting orders).

In most cases, if you are unable to reach an agreement for the children and you are going to court, you will need a certificate from a registered family dispute resolution provider stating you have attended dispute resolution before you can apply to the court for a parenting order. There are some exceptions particularly relating to family violence.

The Family Law Web Guide provides a clear explanation of the difference between parenting plans and Consent Orders. You don’t need to attend court to register Consent Orders for your children.

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