Mediation and family dispute resolution

Mediators and family dispute resolution providers are neutral, third parties who can assist you and your former partner make a parenting plan. It can be a quick means of reaching an agreement without costly legal and court fees.

Mediation and counselling may not be suitable for situations involving domestic violence and you should discuss your options with the mediator or ask for an exemption if you don’t believe you can negotiate a safe agreement for you or your children. You can ask for shuttle mediation where you and your former partner are in separate rooms or one of you is on the telephone.

If you do decide to try mediation it is vital that you tell your mediator about any family violence or any family violence orders so they can work out whether it is appropriate for you to attend mediation.

If you are going to court you will need to provide a certificate from an accredited family dispute resolution provider to confirm that you and your former partner have attended mediation to attempt to resolve your issues before you can commence legal action in the court.

A mediator or family dispute resolution provider may be able to also help if you and your former partner cannot agree on how your assets should be divided. In circumstances where your assets are complex or where superannuation needs to be divided you may need to seek legal advice about how to obtain orders to give effect to that agreement.

The requirement to attend mediation may not apply in certain circumstances such as:

  • Your matter is urgent
  • A child has been abused or is at risk of abuse
  • Domestic violence or risk of family violence
  • A child has been abducted or is at risk of being abducted

If any of the above circumstances apply to you seek legal advice immediately.